Saturday, February 20, 2010

Never Take Matches From a Stranger

Yesterday morning while getting boys ready for school I was listening to our local morning radio show.

Something caught my interest and I decided to share it with you.

There was an incident at one of Starbucks's in the city close to us.Nothing happened and everyone is safe otherwise I would not make fun of it I assure you.

Apparently a clean cut male in red winter jacket was trying to lure a child to follow him to a street corner with MATCHES.  The child resisted and ran back to it's mother who reported the incident.

Yes, you read it correctly.....MATCHES. I don't know if it's the recession or the bad economy, but apparently perverts and pedophiles switched from ever so popular CANDY to Matches.

I don't know what this particular psycho was thinking, but he totally messed up the "Never Take Candy From a Stranger" thing. From now on we have to add....and MATCHES....



It's almost like a scene from "Dumb Criminals".

After this little announcement the radio station asked it's listeners to call in answers to this question:


"Should We Forgive Tiger Woods"?


Apparently Tiger Woods after months of seclusion decided to make a statement about what has been going on with his life and with inability to keep his little **** in his pants.

I though to myself. Why should I forgive him? I don't really care. He didn't do anything to me.I feel terrible for his poor wife and his kids, but it has nothing to do with me.

Then my curiosity got the better of me and I listened to Tiger Woods's Apology. It was mostly about being sorry for his selfish behaviour and for hurting his wife and kids.He talked about always being a private man and he asked the media and tabloids to leave his family alone. He realized that he cost the loss of  their privacy with his affairs and bad behaviour and he brought all this on himself.

I though it was nice of him to ask, but does he really think that the tabloids and the paparazzi will leave his wife and kids alone? The damage has been done and those vultures can smell blood money. Unfortunately, this is the society we are living in. Tiger didn't realized how good he had it being rich and famous while managing to shield his family from the public eye.No money can buy the privacy he used to have.

                                           "I Was Unfaithful...I had Affairs... I Cheated" - Tiger Wood


You screwed that up, boy when you decided to parade your other brain around town.

In his apology Tiger made sure that he cleared his wife's name from being accused of hitting him and hurting him after finding out about his affairs.

Well, consider yourself lucky. Many other women would break your clubs on your back and you'll be pooping golf balls for weeks to come. Then they would take everything you have and make your life a living hell. The fact that she's still with you and you are able to see your kids is a miracle.You should thank God everyday for that.

Anyway, back to his apology.

One thing he said really got me: "I though I can get away with whatever I wanted to.I felt that I worked hard my entire life and I deserve to enjoy all the temptations around me. I felt I was entitled.I was wrong. I was foolish. I don't get to play by different rules.The same boundaries that apply to everyone apply to me."

Really, Tiger.....you felt ENTITLED to disrespect your wife, to break your marriage vows, to hurt your children? You felt entitled to let down all the young kids that looked up to you as a role model?

BTW, my son was one of them.

Tiger did apologize to the young kids and their parents for letting them down. So I guess the question is:

"Do I forgive Tiger Woods for letting my child down?".......I AM THINKING........maybe a set of new golf clubs will speed up my decision.

What do you think? Should I forgive him?






25 comments:

Danielle said...

If he seriously thought he was ENTITLED to do this, heck no, I wouldn't ever forgive him. I have issues with forgiveness anyways, LOL.

And the matches thing cracked me up. Must be the recession.

Shell said...

He felt he was entitled? What an ass. LMAO @ pooping golfballs for weeks.

Robin said...

Wow, I hadnt really listened to it..thanks for the update..I cant believe he actually stated that he felt entitled...WTF...he has a bad publicist..thats the last thing to add to an apology...!
..and the matches...unbelievable...!

a49erfangirl said...

What a jerk thinking he was entitled to do what ever he wanted. I suppose when he thought he was entitled it meant there was no consequences too. Your right he is damn lucky he is still married and sees his kids. No way I would forgive him.

The Pipster said...

I hadn't heard the entitled part either. And the matches - OMG! My son doesn't really like candy but he does like fire. I better take special note of that one.

I'm a full-time mummy said...

I only heard about the part where he was apologizing and then I just tuned out... like ermmm... whatever... never been bothered with sports stuff and affairs and cheating and all. I've got better things to focus on than his story... :P

kristi said...

I think he should be more concerned about his wife's forgiveness. DAWG....bow wow!

ShellyInOz said...

"pooping golfballs for a week"--hilarious!

The matches thing was funny, but scary to think about what could have happened.

I was trying to ignore the whole Tiger Woods thing, because I didn't think it was my business, but 'entitled'? grrrr.

Shelly from Tropical Mum

Charlene said...

Matches, huh? I guess maybe since he was playing with fire trying to lure young kids then he should at least use the right resource???

As for Tiger, I think he's a moron, the only thing that stopped him was the fact that he got caught. If it wasn't for that then he'd still be doing it. He's an idiot...beautiful wife and kids, career..threw it all away for some sex. I feel bad for his wife and kids (how embarrasing), not for him.

Midday Escapades said...

Well, you know, kids are attracted to matches. Just like when we were young and told not to play with them. Thank goodness that kid wised up in time.

Oh I am so over Tiger Woods. I really don't care whether we forgive him or not. I just feel for his wife and kids. They are the ones that have to deal with his consequences.

sheila said...

The only reason he came out with a public apology was because he was losing big money in endorsements. Hey, when you put yourself on a pedestal, you're bound to fall hard when you do fall. If you tout morals, you better damn well live by them or everyone will be all over ya., lol.

I could care less about his sorry-ness. I don't think it should be news. But, as you said, a new set of clubs might sway me.

:) you're funny.

Cristina said...

Maybe...if he sends your son golf clubs - and leaves the matches at home!

That's right, I said it. Why not, I'm a combiner.

Love ya!

Cristina

MisAdventuresofMomof3 said...

No - we don't have to - it's the little people of the world I feel sorry for. Another fallen hero....sigh. Like my husband said - now we have Peyton...crossing fingers.


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Kimberly said...

Pooping golf balls!

I was laughing so loud my husband came downstairs to check on me.

Personally, I could care less about what he does or does not do.

I feel sorry for his wife and children. He thought he was above it all. OMG Get over yourself Tiger!

Bibi...I finally posted my tag!

Melissa said...

I have done everything possible to avoid the Tiger Woods scandal, from switching stations to not reading the articles. I read your post though, and it only makes me feel more sympathy for his wife and kids. It is not up to me to judge Tiger for what he did, it is up to his wife to decide if she wants to forgive. I don't care what he does, I don't care how much money he makes. I do care though that he made a statement saying he felt entitled, and that I'm sorry I feel may send the wrong message out.

Jo said...

Ms. Bibi, a very good question posed to Mr. Woods and one that will continue to rightfully be asked.

Please let us know what your conclusion is -- you brought up an excellent point to ponder. It's the kids who look up to him that he has disappointed the most, in addition to his own kids, wife and family.

I want to thank you for your sincere comment -- I responded to you in kind in my comment section after yours. :)

Love ya!

~Jo

Tracie said...

I didn't watch his apology. I don't think he's sorry he did it. He's just sorry he got caught. He'll be back to his old ways as soon as the media stops watching his every move.

Corrie Howe said...

It is sad what people will do to harm kids. I'm glad the little boy was smart enough to be cautious.

If it were me, I'd have a hard time forgiving many affairs. But then, I think about all the things my Lord and Savior has forgiven me of, so I can definitely forgive Tiger...but then I'm not married to him either.

karen@fitnessjourney said...

Don't get me started on Tiger Woods! Why is that that every time someone famous screws up people say "he/she has mental health problems or a disease." If you or I cheated with dozens of other people we'd be called a completely different name.

Maybe we need to stop looking at the athletes themselves as role models and instead point out to our children the value of the hard work that goes into achieving their goals.

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Joe @ 20 To Life said...

Firstly - matches?? Good grief!
And I agree with you, the whole Tiger Woods thing - he didn't do anything to me, I do feel so badly for his poor, poor children and embarrassed wife. But was he really thinking, being a public figure and all that, that he could stay out of the media eye on this? You were right - they smell blood.

Holly said...

Matches...that's odd!

As for Tiger...sooo very tired of listening to celebrities and other famous people b*tch about things. In this day and age anyone in the public eye knows what to expect and they reaps the benefits of being in the public eye, the screw up and then they want to be left alone...You cannot have it both ways. Fortunately my son is not interested in sports starts...yet

mykidsarefun said...

Matches? Wow that's a new one! What's worse than Tiger? The porn star that wants an apology from him for leading her on...WHAT?!? She knew he was married? People are so strange...

A New Mom said...

Thats a new low...matches. Tiger Woods too actually....but thats all I'm gonna say about him (I tend to be too opinionated on things like that).

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