Wednesday, September 30, 2009

September 2009 - Last Month of Misery

I decided that September 2009 will the the last month of my/our misery.

Just to recap last 12 months for you:

  1. My husband lost his job overnight after 10 years without warning.
  2. We had to pull our kids out from minor hockey due to dirty politics involving my husband
  3. We had to use his severance pay to half finish our new house before winter (we we're living in a travel trailer).
  4. I learned the truth about some people I trusted and lost one of my best friends in a process ( no she didn't die - she showed her true colors).
  5. Christmas morning our 5 year old epileptic puppy died in a seizure.
  6. My older son and I spent 3 months in and out of the hospital due to his diabetes complications.
  7. My husband applied for 475 jobs in last 11 months - was hired 4 times - 3 times the company closed or project was canceled before he started or right after he started (he worked 3 weeks in last 11 months).
  8. I started home daycare and after 1 month I lost half the income due to lay-offs in our local plant.
  9. First time in my life I had to deal with Collection agency and learn my rights the hard way.
  10. First time in my life I had to borrow money from family just to pay bills and buy food and medications for my children.
  11. First time in my life I could not afford to send my son to the Diabetes camp in the summer (I think this one was the hardest)

As of October 2009 I am taking on a personal challenge to change my life from misery to happiness. I know I can do it......just watch me world!

2 comments:

ParlinMom said...

Happy SITS Saturday Sharefest!!
Ok I just read this post and I am ready to come where you are with my boxing gloves on....I can only imagine what this fells like. Someone very dear to me was told that she has Type 2 Diabetes in April of this year and we have been going on a worldwind about it.
I just wrote a post about "friendhsip" yesterday, here is the link:
http://parlinmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/its-so-hard-to-say-goodbye.html
I know how that goes.
Not going to be too long but good luck with everything.

Marilyn (A Lot of Loves) said...

That's a rough year for sure. I have Type 2 diabetes, which I know is not near as bad as Type 1, but I have a good sense of what Type 1 is like since I had to be on insulin before and during my pregnancies. It was extremely rough. I hated every minute of it and I was forced to take insulin many times a day (including in the middle of night) for months on end. But I knew there was an end in sight for me and hopefully I won't need to deal with insulin until I am an old, old woman. Unfortunately your son doesn't have that luxury. During those pregnancy months I found myself so grateful to Dr. Banting for discovering insulin...and he was Canadian too!